Unlearning society's norms allows us to see the beauty in diverse gender expressions.
The threads of personal growth are delicately woven in the fabric of life, frequently showing the beauty of honesty and the power of acceptance. This emotion intensified when I had the opportunity to witness the incredible path of self-discovery of my transgender friend, Vihaan J Muralidaran. As he began his journey towards gender change, I found myself amid an unlearning process that transformed my perspective on identity, relationships, and the value of honouring authenticity. Credits: @healpsychotherap
The first step in my friend’s journey was the revelation that his outside look did not truly represent who he was on the inside. This epiphany sent him on a journey of self-discovery where he bravely accepted his true gender identity. His experience served as a potent reminder that identity is complex and intensely individual. When I was in eleventh grade, I challenged and questioned my preconceived beliefs of gender and identity and this realisation marked the start of my own path of unlearning.
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The difficulties Vihaan encountered as a result of social ignorance and discrimination were obvious and illuminating. Seeing the prejudice and persecution that frequently accompanies the transgender community’s path was depressing. I understood that change was required as I stood by alongside him, providing unyielding support. I started a process of unlearning, admitting my own prejudices and looked for information on the experiences of transgender people This phase of my journey has highlighted the value of advocacy., guidance and providing welcoming places for open conversation.
While difficult transformation is a means for progress. I learnt from my friend’s path that embracing change will invite personal progress. His experiences proved that transformation comprised not just bodily improvements but also mental well-being and happiness. This realisation forced me to face my own anxieties of change and enjoy the beauty of fluidity, both in gender identity and in the ever-changing nature of life.
This aided me in beginning a process of unlearning that went beyond words. His journey exposed the complexity of identity, challenged my prejudices, and shifted my perspective on relationships and honesty. This journey of unlearning continues, reminding us that progress is a never- ending process and that variety should be welcomed with open arms. As we continue our own journeys, I will be eternally thankful for the enormous influence my friend’s transition had on me, Credits: YOURFATES.COM
which sparked an endless quest for knowledge, acceptance, and celebration of human identity.
So, remember to always learn to unlearn your preconceptions just as I did.
I also came across a video on YouTube a few days ago by NETFLIX called “The First Step to Pride.” Released on 2021 Pride Day which emphasised how a man overcame his childhood prejudices against the LGBTQIA+ community.
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