Have you ever considered the idea that you could be carrying red flags too? Check how many sentences below have you found yourself saying out loud, ad find out how many boxes you tick:
1) "Love yourself, no matter what"
If you believe that one should love themselves no matter what, it might be a thumbs down. Relationships with yourselves could be messy, you are allowed to not love yourself when you think you did something wrong.
2) Free advices to do skincare
Skin care might be your emotional support, but that doesn't mean it should be everyone’s. If you go around asking people to do skincare the moment you spot a wrinkle on their skin, well well well, lower your red flag.
3) "You are pretty even if you are fat"
Oh hello! We said fat, not ugly. If your body neutrality advice sounds like this, find yourself as a part of the problem.
4) "Always look towards the brighter side"
Toxic positivity alert! Being on the dark side is okay, not being able to find a way out is okay. You can’t navigate forward if you don’t accept the downfalls.
5) A ‘no’ kills you
Finding it difficult to take a no is a glaring red flag. If you think you are just at the beginning stage, work on yourself. If you are used to being uncomfortable with a no, then get ready to be criticised more because you definitely are the problem.
6)"Narcissism is the new self-love"
Being a little selfish is not bad, but do you think it is ‘cool’ to be a narcissist? This is your sign to tick a red box.
7) You always play the victim card
Do you find it convenient to always be the victim? Then there is something you should rethink about yourself. Until then, consider yourself to be ticking one more red box.
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